I started this blog just over a year ago as a way to motivate myself to eat mindfully more often. Accountability through the creepiness of the internet.
As Jon Kabat Zinn, the grandmaster of modern mindfulness says, you've got to walk the walk. You can't just agree with the principles, or read about it, or think about it. Mindfulness is a way of being. He admonishes: every time you think about talking about your mindfulness practice, shut up and DO it (I'm now about to ignore that great advice and continue writing this post).
Mindful eating is becoming a way of being for me. (Dear sweetheart: Yes, even that last long day on our recent roadtrip counts! I was fully aware of how mindlessly I was eating ALL of the crappy weird American junk food and I consciously made that choice because I was being bored to death by the audiobook we were listening to. I didn't actually mean it when I said it was your turn to choose.)
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There were recently 2 huge validations of the progress I've made on my mindful eating journey. I'm sharing them so that you might be inspired on your path too.
Huge Validation #1:
I read some of my earlier blog posts from a year ago. There's no better evidence of your own transformation than seeing your thoughts in black and white. That's why so many different kinds of programs advocate using a journal.
Tip for you: If you're trying mindful eating, consider keeping some notes on your experience. The "Before I Eat" mindful eating app is one handy way to do that.
Huge Validation #2:
I attend many meetings each year where meals are provided. I just came home from yet another one, where the food was plentiful and quite tasty. There were yummy desserts at every meal, and - get this - hot chocolate AND chocolate milk dispensers! And, of course the best part was I didn't have to shop, cook, or do dishes.
In such circumstances I used to struggle with the temptation to eat so much that I was uncomfortably full, to eat desserts every time they were available, and to drink chocolate beverages all day. This time there was no struggle. My body wanted to eat mostly fruit and veggies. I didn't even think about the chocolate milk. I quickly recognized that the hot chocolate was sub-par. I chose to have 2 chocolate desserts over the course of a few days, and I thoroughly enjoyed them. I was not a perfect mindful eater. But, I was not a total mindless eater, either. I'm talking sea-change here!
Tip for you: If you've been trying to eat mindfully and feel like you're not getting anywhere, try to notice if there are any specific habits, cravings, or ways of thinking that have changed for you. Even if it's something simple like putting down your fork between bites. That's a big deal! You've changed a lifelong habit, and if you look at the people around you, you'll notice that you're having a regular moment of awareness while you eat that few others are experiencing.
3 more tips for you:
Be patient. Try again. ENJOY eating!